 I first heard about Focusing from David and Rebecca Grudermeyer, with whom I wrote Sensible Self-Help,
a book about the stages of emotional wounding and healing. These San
Diego-area psychotherapists said Focusing was one of their primary
tools, and essential to the healing process.
In
1994, I attended a five-day training at The Esalen Institute in Big
Sur: Ann Weiser Cornell’s Focusing workshop on Action Blocks. I was
surprised to discover that I was already a focuser (although not yet a
Focuser), having unconsciously used these skills in my own therapy.
In 1995, I began traveling to Berkeley to take Ann's weekend workshops
and then to study with her and Diana Marder (of Huntington Beach) to be
a trainer. I was certified by the Focusing Institute in 1998 (although
I began teaching others in San Diego in 1996). When Reva Bernstein
- a friend of Dr. Gendlin's and one of the original Focusers - moved to
San Diego from Chicago in 1997, I gained another mentor.
I love teaching Focusing and watching the light of discovery go on in
the eyes of a new Focuser. The power, subtlety, and utter simplicity of
this practice inspires and astonishes me again and again. |